Welcome to episode 38 and the season FINALE of The Exponential You!
For the season finale, I speak with JJ Roberts. He is the founder of Sex 3.0 and author of the ground-breaking book Sex 3.0 : A Sexual Revolution manual. He is a Sex 3.0 trainer, coach, writer, speaker and he travels the world spreading the Sex 3.0 message as an experienced public speaker from large conferences in front of hundreds of people to speaking to small crowds at speaker’s corner in London’s Hyde Park.
He talks about relationship failure due to the beliefs and rules that society hands to us. In other words, when you embark on a Sex 2.0 relationship and follow society’s rules, you are subscribing to a model of systemic failure in a fundamentally broken framework.
As the problems in the established model are so deeply ingrained, it is not a problem that can be fixed by tweaking the established model, it can only be fixed by a complete replacement framework – a complete upgrade. This upgrade is called Sex 3.0.
What is Sex 1.0, 2.0 and 3.0? Check out JJ on episode 11 to get the lowdown here!
Current relationship framework is built on 3 elements: fear+control+deception. “We’re meant to use each other as a ballast to stay afloat in life”3.0 is Self determination+honest+love
- People are beginning to realize that the current structure of relationships is a form of control
- We want freedom, yet we want security, once we have that we want freedom! So we make excuses or tolerate certain things we don’t want
- JJ Roberts suggests a different model, called 3.0, built on self determination+honesty
- Why we should get away from talking about monogamy vs. polygamy as a solution
- Freedom of choice by itself is not enough if you dont have the freedom to exercise it
- People are scared when they think they are not built for monogamy and that this is a bad thing! “Human beings are built to be bred in captivity”
- We talk infinitely about love yet struggle to answer “what is love?” JJ Answers that for us on the show
- This is caused by the great amnesia” as a collective society
- In order to change, we must first admit we have subscribed to a system that isn’t working
- Switch personalities – what is “switch”?
- How to stack the odds in your favor in relationships
- Free Videos: Love Without Control
- Free Videos: Unfenced Relationships
- Sex3.0: Paperback
- Sex3.0: Kindle
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