Are you where you want to be in your life and accomplishing what you desire? Are you in a dynamic, synergistic, evolving relationship? Do you want to be happier and feel more confident? Are you struggling with making it all work and play a bigger game? You’re successful; you have a great job, a significant other, maybe you have kids and life on the outside looks like you have it all according to ‘the formula’. But…you know there is more out there. You already know you have been drinking the koolaid.
You feel like you’re at a Masquerade party, constantly changing costumes.
You’re trying to figure out who you need to be for each person yet you can’t be yourself with anyone (wife, parents, friends, co-worker). It is a constant battle.
Maybe you can’t find people who are like minded, who will accept you exactly as you are. You’re struggling in your relationships. Often your partner is not on the same page and doesn’t share your values. You don’t feel heard. You are lost as to which direction to start with to head towards having a more passion driven, purposeful life.
Maybe you wonder who do you even become on the other side? And more importantly, how do you teach your children to do the same? How do you become better parents to your children than your own parents?
You want to ask the fearful questions, the shameful questions, you want to be open and healthy about your sexuality and you want to cultivate the same within your relationships without being judged.
Maybe you wonder to yourself, who has my back? Do I have anyone? I’m the one who has to get this done and get it right because no one is behind me to catch me if I fail. And if I fail, I’m no good – I am not a man. Do I become passive or aggressive to be a good man? Where is my place in society as a man, a lover? I am so confused about what women want and need!!!
Pretty crazy I know, I’ve heard it, played the game and changed it. The truth is that we all see strong successful men like you and think you have your shit together when really you feel completely suffocated. You desperately want to be able to have conversations about sexuality, approaching women, relationships and life but feel like you will be seen as weak or a complainer if you speak up.
You are trapped in trying to make a significant difference and being a hero by saving everyone around you, being the nice guy, yet conflicted between living by the rules that you feel like you have to follow vs what your true desires are. You’re trying to find a way to escape the masquerade party, feel like a hero and build significance in your life all while being true to yourself. You don’t even know where and how to BEGIN unraveling this web of bullshit you’ve had to create around yourself.
No one is saying “hey I get it” because instead they’re targeting you with age old paradigms, being coached to do things that still keep your truth stuck inside. You are still stuck with following the same rules. Nothing has changed, just gotten worse … everything out there is reinforcing you to keep the costume on.
So let me ask you this, how would you feel if you were in a relationship where both of you spoke the same language, where you had the absolutely confidence to lead and partner with your woman and your kids? Where you connected with her in a way that she completely trusted her mind, body and soul to you? If you knew how to stand up for yourself and let your voice be heard, had clarity on what it meant to be a man in the modern culture without being utterly suffocated, to be truthful, honest, authentically you?
What would your life look like if you knew had the kind of relationship you dream of? The kind of job you would kill for, if you were the guy your child looks up to? The guy who knows exactly what his purpose is on this earth and what he needs to do to fulfill it? Someone who is the architect of his own destiny and goes to a level beyond what most men are capable of achieving. Who would you be? What does that person look like, sound like and do?
This is not your average men’s show and I am definitely NOT your average woman.
I am the girl best friend a guy never had, the one you can tell anything to without judgement, talk about anything you want to and I promise, I will hear you.
My #1 goal for this podcast is to open the door to help you redefine your life the way YOU want it and become a modern, conscious, evolving MAN without complicated “formulas’. This show is not about shooting the shit and entertainment. I want to get real, with myself and with you.
We will talk about vulnerability and sexuality and why its essential for you in leadership, business, friendships and especially your relationships. About dealing with huge changes in life, the fundamentals of leading a fulfilling life and stepping closer to brotherhood. About walking through life without being afraid to be fully yourself and take your personal growth and life to the exponential level. About how you can be more confident, bold, powerful, fearless, sexual, spiritual and
redefine what being a ‘real’ man means for yourself. Because being alive, authentic, raw and real is SEXY – Nida Kazmi, M.S. Psychology